Arranged marriage is almost like two families' shares the interests first with each other, and then if the parents get satisfied and found that a candidate is compatible with their demands they prefer to align the meetings with all family elder members, like the grandparents, and the uncles/aunts who lead the families.
These two families are deciding the future of their son and a daughter. There is nothing much bothering with these types of marriages but if one of them; a girl or a boy, have been loved before by someone else, like that one person's love meant the world for them but now separated, this, yeah these things bother that person awfully.
The trauma of losing love becomes lifetime suffering.
Silent suffering is the worst painful thing in this world. For that one person, the arranged marriage is not an easy phase who had been separated from his/her love. But you know what, the fear of facing the so-called society, the family, the relatives, especially the desire of fulfilling the parent's happiness, bring the child to the stage of killing their heart more where they kept their selves aside mentally, and with big heavy soul they make it substantiate that they are heartily present in all the occasions of their marriage, which is the biggest life changing occasion of their life.
Living with the one with whom you are married and having someone else in your heart,who had touched your soul before is the lifetime deadlier sacrifice you have to give.
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