Why he's treating me like this? Why has he's changed? Should we both have to be separated for peace?

Like how these questions appear in every woman's mind, why every love story after dating a lot gets these vibes or we can say went to those directions.

Every man is the same. He acts like that, it's natural. All these types of statements are right but are girls always, right? A big question mark comes over here.

Every human being is a mannequin of mistakes. 

Listen, every relationship needs a changing stage. A good changing stage. As a girl or a woman trying to bring some new practices between you and your man. Bring new jokes, new teasing ways which he would love and found cute neither he feels irritated nor feels exhausted. 

A big complaint is that our man is moving forward along with other women or taking interest in other women's and like them, like their dressings, their way of talking now more than of me.

Why did this happen, ever you think once on this? My beautiful woman, he is a man. It's his nature to look at other women and get attracted towards them by their looks and by their slaying dressings or many other reasons. 

Life is a roller-coaster. Keep changing yourself, go get yourself groomed every month. Make appointments and go to the parlors to get new hair cut, mani-pedi cure treatments, waxing, facials, leisure treatments, etc. Keep yourself just up-to-date. 

Stop complaining about him all the time. start appreciating him for all the things he does. Bring some good positive way examples to explain to him indirectly what you like or do not like. 

Took some different steps to make your Tomorrow peaceful with your loved one to live. 

Know his secrets very secretly. And keep eyes on his obsession, what he wants and what he's in the mood to demand. 

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When your kids were this small they used to tell you everything after coming back home. They used to tell you even if you didn’t ask. You had to listen even if you didn’t have time. Today you run behind them asking what they did the whole day. Does it not happen? Earlier they used to come behind us to tell us things today we run behind them. But they close their room doors and add passwords on their phones. They do not tell you even if you ask them. And if you pressurize them to answer, they may not say the truth. Where did the relationship change? They used to tell us everything but now they have stopped telling us. Why? Because when they were this small and shared things we would feel happy to listen to them. We used to accept every soul, please make this a habit of your life "Every soul needs acceptance". So, when they shared things while they were small, we used to feel happy and accept them as they were used to tell us something daily.

Once they grew up they came to you and suppose they told you "Mom you know what happened today, we bunked classes and we went for a movie." How did we react to that? Did we smile? No. That kid shared it using his habit of honesty, just as he did when he was younger. But that day from our side, instead of acceptance he got a rejection for the first time. After a few days, he said something else and again got a rejection from us. So, gradually he stopped telling us. We thought he stopped doing those things and hence not telling us anything. But he did not stop doing anything he only stopped telling us things. Is going to a movie by bunking school wrong? Is it wrong for them to try a cigarette if they are at a party? Is it wrong to come back late in the night from a party? Is it wrong to over-speed his car when driving? Yes, it is. But when everyone in the class is going and if someone does not go they make fun of him and then they separate him from their group and he wants to be a part of that group. Now is it right for him to feel tempted to go? But we did not say this to our kid that day. We had to say and we had to believe that you feeling like that like doing what everyone around you is doing your feeling like doing whatever is in the vibration around you, It is right from your side. If you had spoken like that, your kid would have come so much close to you. And then we could have told him, "But what you are thinking of doing" "It is not right for you." "You are right, but that thing is not right for you." Is there a difference between them? "You are right." "Your temptation is also right." "But, this thing is not right for you." Now you got their respect, they became closer to you and there is a higher chance that they will be influenced by what you say. But we said, "You are wrong, what are you doing? Is this what I taught you? What will people say?" Kids will distance themselves from you. Now they will start bunking classes and not even tell you.

In today's world if you want to protect your children then there is only one way and that should be they should be able to come and tell you everything that is happening in their life. And that everything may not be what you always will like. It will not be. But you want to take care of them and protect them? They have to come and tell you everything.

Be their friends first and then be their parents. 

So when you think about a family, a child, a close friend, or a romantic partner, the word "love" probably comes into the mind, and instantly other emotions rush in like joy, hope, excitement, trust, and security. And yes sometimes sadness and disappointments.

There might not be a word in the dictionary that more of us are connected to than love. Yet, given its central importance in our lives, isn't it interesting that we're never explicitly taught how to love? We build friendships, navigate early romantic relationships, get married and bring babies home from the hospital with the expectation that we'll figure it out. But the truth is, we often harm and disrespect the ones we love. It can be subtle things like guilting a friend into spending time with you or sneaking a peek at your partner's texts or shaming a child for their lack of effort at school. 100% of us will be on the receiving end of unhealthy relationship behaviors and 100% of us will do unhealthy things. It's part of being human. In its worst form, the harm we inflict on loved ones shows up as abuse and violence. And relationship abuse is something that one in three women and one in four men will experience in their lifetime.

Now, if you're like most people, when you hear those stats, you’ll go, "Oh, no, no, no, that would never happen to me." It's instinctual to move away from the words "abuse" and "violence," to think that they happen to someone else somewhere else. But the truth is, unhealthy relationships and abuse are all around us. We just call them different things and ignore the connection.

Abuse sneaks up on us disguised in an unhealthy love. 

Abusive relationships don't start abusive. They start being exciting and exhilarating. There's an intensity of affection and emotion, a rush. It feels really good. You feel so lucky like you've hit the jackpot. But in unhealthy love, these feelings shift over time from exciting to overwhelming and maybe a little bit suffocating. You feel it in your gut. Maybe it's when your new boyfriend or girlfriend says "I love you" faster than you were ready for or starts showing up everywhere, texting and calling a lot. Maybe they're impatient when you're slow to respond, even though they know you had other things going on that day. It's important to remember that it's not how a relationship starts that matters, it's how it evolves.

It's important in the early days of a new relationship to pay attention to how you're feeling. Are you comfortable with the pace of intimacy? Do you feel like you have space and room to breathe? It's also really important to start practicing using your voice to talk about your own needs. Are your requests respected?

If you ask me, isolation is one of the most frequently missed and misunderstood signs of unhealthy love. Why? Because every new relationship starts with this intense desire to spend time together, and it's easy to miss when something shifts.

Isolation creeps in when your new boyfriend or girlfriend starts pulling you away from your friends and family, your support system, and tethering you more tightly to them. They might say things like, "Why do you hang out with them? They're such losers", about your best friends, or, "They want us to break up, they're totally against us", about your family. Isolation is about sowing seeds of doubt about everyone from your pre-relationship life.

Healthy love includes independence, two people who love spending time together but who stay connected to the people and activities they cared about before. While at first, you might spend every waking minute together, over time maintaining independence is key. You do this by making plans with friends and sticking to them and encouraging your partner to do the same.

Unhealthy love is extreme jealousy. As the honeymoon period begins to fade, extreme jealousy can creep in. Your partner might become more demanding, needing to know where you are and who you're with all the time or they might start following you everywhere, online and off. Extreme jealousy also brings with it possessiveness, mistrust, and frequent accusations of flirting with other people or cheating, and refusal to listen to you when you tell them they have nothing to worry about and that you only love them.

Jealousy is a part of any human relationship, but extreme jealousy is different. There's a threatening, desperate and angry edge to it. Love shouldn't feel like this at all.

In unhealthy love, words are used as weapons. Conversations that used to be fun and lighthearted turn mean and embarrassing. Maybe your partner makes fun of you in a way that hurts, or maybe they tell stories and jokes for laughs at your expense. When you try to explain that your feelings have been hurt, they shut you down and accuse you of overreacting. "Why are you so sensitive? What's your problem? Give me a break." And you are silenced by these words.

It seems pretty obvious, but your partner should have your back. Their words should build you up, not break you down. They should keep your secrets and be loyal. They should make you feel more confident, not less.

The frequent break-ups and make-ups are the most facing stage in any relationship. As tension rises, so does the volatility.

Tearful, frustrated fights followed by emotional make-ups. The hateful and hurtful comments like, "You're worthless, I'm not even sure why I'm with you!" followed quickly by apologies and promises it will never happen again. By this point, you've been so conditioned to this relationship roller coaster that you may not realize how unhealthy and maybe even dangerous your relationship has become.

It can be really hard to see when unhealthy love turns towards abuse, but it's fair to say that the more of these above signs your relationship might have, the unhealthier and maybe dangerous your relationship could be. And if your instinct is to break up and leave, which is advice, and so many of us give our friends when they're in unhealthy relationships, that's not always the best advice.

Time of breakup can be a real trigger for violence. If you fear you might be headed towards abuse or in abuse, you need to consult with experts to get advice on how to leave safely. But it's not just about romantic relationships and it's not just about violence. Understanding the signs of unhealthy love can help you audit and understand nearly every relationship in your life.

For the first time, you might understand why you're disappointed in a friendship or why every interaction with a certain family member leaves you discouraged and anxious. You might even begin to see how your intensity and jealousy are causing problems with the people in your surroundings.

Understanding is the first step to improving, and while you can't make every unhealthy relationship healthy, some you're going to have to leave behind. You can do your part every day to do relationships better.

Open communication, mutual respect, kindness, patience, giving space, and patience to listen, it’s all not rocket science to do. We can practice these things every day. And practice will make you better.

We've treated relationships as a soft topic when relationship skills are one of the most important and hard to build things in life.

Not only understanding unhealthy signs can help you avoid the rabbit hole that leads to unhealthy love, but also understanding and practicing the art of being healthy can improve nearly every aspect of your life.

I'm completely convinced that while love is an instinct and an emotion, the ability to love better is a skill we can all build and improve on overtime. 

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A man who just looks like a one-man army is much better than a man who took many bodyguards with him. 

The 40 years journey of Sidharth Shukla is idyllic. The way he brought himself up to be recognized by the public is priceless. 

He had done many shows and won them too. But Bigg Boss 13 (BB13) was his last show which he had done and won the trophy. 

The first time Sidharth Shukla and Shehnaaz Kaur Gill met each other in the BB13, and from the journey of knowing each other to become each other's best support they both won the hearts of many, not in India only but also internationally. 

The bond Sidharth Shukla and Shehnaaz Kaur Gill share is reminiscing, still today. The way Sidharth Shukla took care of Shehnaaz Kaur Gill in the house was the most catch-able moment of their journey in the BB13 house. He not only fulfilled his promises in the Bigg Boss house, but also after the show he took care of Shehnaaz and brought her up with his care, love, and possessiveness. He was the one who wasn't mean to Shehnaaz and genuinely was so loyal to her.

As Sidharth Shukla's fan, we felt the pain in our heart by his death, so what Shehnaaz Kaur Gill is feeling for him is incredibly painful to describe in words. 

After the Bigg Boss 13 show, Shehnaaz Kaur Gill announced in her other show that she is in love with Sidharth Shukla. And before starting his love life, Sidharth Shukla chooses to let Shehnaaz build her career up, and in this all who knows that Sidharth will leave her so soon. 

The public gives them the name 'Sidnaaz' when they were ruling in the hearts of many while living in the Bigg Boss house. And they got so much fame, love from their die heart fans as 'Sidnaaz'.

Sidnaaz is not only the name which has been given by the fans to Sidharth Shukla and Shehnaaz Kaur Gill's love + friendship bond, but it's a emotion for many of us. An emotion of care, an emotion of friendship, an emotion of best friend's, an emotion of laughs, an emotion of fights, an emotion of possessions, an emotion of many arguments, an emotion of jealousy, an emotion of cries, an emotion of fulfilling the promises, and in most the emotion of love. "Sidnaaz, truly is an emotion ❤". 

I really wish the best to Shehnaaz Kaur Gill for her life and career. She needs more power to accept the reality and to face the world without Sidharth Shukla. May God bless her innocent soul. 

If you are having love for someone, liking them with all of your heart, and hiding your feelings just for the sake of society labels, so please don't do this, DON'T!

Life is really so unpredictable, and Love is so beautiful, leaving the world without explaining your love to that person is so painful. Just express what you have in your heart, no matter what it costs. 

I wish nobody's love story will be left incomplete while making the reminiscing history in many people's heart. The journey of Sidharth Shukla and Shehnaaz Kaur Gill is unforgettable and it left a mark of Sidnaaz's emotion in many hearts. 

Arranged marriage is almost like two families' shares the interests first with each other, and then if the parents get satisfied and found that a candidate is compatible with their demands they prefer to align the meetings with all family elder members, like the grandparents, and the uncles/aunts who lead the families.

These two families are deciding the future of their son and a daughter. There is nothing much bothering with these types of marriages but if one of them; a girl or a boy, have been loved before by someone else, like that one person's love meant the world for them but now separated, this, yeah these things bother that person awfully. 

The trauma of losing love becomes lifetime suffering. 

Silent suffering is the worst painful thing in this world. For that one person, the arranged marriage is not an easy phase who had been separated from his/her love. But you know what, the fear of facing the so-called society, the family, the relatives, especially the desire of fulfilling the parent's happiness, bring the child to the stage of killing their heart more where they kept their selves aside mentally, and with big heavy soul they make it substantiate that they are heartily present in all the occasions of their marriage, which is the biggest life changing occasion of their life.

Living with the one with whom you are married and having someone else in your heart,who had touched your soul before is the lifetime deadlier sacrifice you have to give.

  

You were the Creator and you are the Despoiler.

Yeah! You crave for the true love to holding on hands, you crave for the affection, you crave for the laughs, and you crave for all of the loveable moments.

You get started that all with all of your eyes filled with love, Ah! (those eyes.....), the love which just catches me to fell and binds up myself with your soul, that soul which showing me that how desperately someone trying to be mine from many last past years. I feel, how your thoughts, your eyes, your feelings, and your emotions were yelling at me to let me know that how much you wanted me to be yours truly. That's all that was done at that time which took me all into the deep love mode.

When you shared your all tantrums of childhood, all unjustifiable dilemmas, and all those past scars of yours bring me more closer to you emotionally and make me all of yours truly. 

Did you think once, on that incident day? Yeah, of course, an incident which accidentally happened to me on that day, when you were all prepared to assure me with your love, affection, and intentions.

That day without asking me even, you supernaturally make me 'all yours'.

Did you notice when the first time, the way you grip my hands and how my heart was shaking that time, did you noticed that how my cheeks were being tight and being confused like how could I ever blushed and bewilder, stunned at the same time?

Believe me or not but you were the first boy who became that much closer to me, to my soul without even taking my permission. It doesn't make me feel strange on that day with you at all. I feel so safe, so mine, so pampered with you, just like a 'home', man.

Have you ever think once, that a girl who never allowed any boy to get so close to her, and had never allowed to touch her soul, even not a body, that girl was feeling so genuine comfortable with you at that time?

Before blaming me, before pointing out a finger at my character, on my loyal love, you should just have to think once that to whom you were pointing out, to whom you were degrading. You bring that all to end up very soon. We fantasized together about a long journey to face many hurdles attacks, love adventurous pain, and so many things. But nothing lasts forever. 

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The happy end which two people decide in love has never gone exactly on those ways.

She, she was making promises with him. From all of her heart, she promises him to make herself solely like on his expectations, to never make him feel down because of her. She was promising him from all of her heart to cope up with all the tantrums which will bring them especially him and their relationship down.

She asked him that this is all the start of our true love, I'm learning, and after that, we will never bring fights in between us that's a new promise. And in reply to her, he does those same promises with all love, sincerity, and passion.

And now today, those promises are the last ones that have been converted into reality.

Yeah! That promise is so actual, they both now don't fight with each other anymore. Because now they are not in touch.

Now from all those promises, from each other's souls, from the love, from the happiness of each other's existence, and all those hearted smiles they are now far apart totally.

And it's the worst deep truth of some passionate lovers.